It's that time of the year again, as graduations begin to happen, friends start planning out their next step and if they knew what they wanted to do with their life since they started going to kindergarten, and then there's the rest, the part of the college population that's still trying to figure out what they want to do next.
Everyone wants to know about you, how you are going? what are your plans? if you dare to bring your couple to a family reunion you will hear about weddings and kids, you can always brush off those comments, but when you don't know what to do with your life the problem begins.
You start to question yourself about every movement you make, somehow those questions stick to your head and you even consider going to the doctor to see if that little headache you've been having for the past three days means something, just as a precaution.
But no one tells you about your options, you don't have to make a decision right away. There are so many things waiting for you out there and you can either choose something in a moment of weakness or try different things, see where it goes. You may be able to find that one job that really makes you happy.
Sometimes it's easy, you may find it in something you already do, sometimes it takes a hell of a lot more time because the thing you may think you are passionate about may not fulfill you, and that's okay. If something fails try something else, don't give up right away, answers are hidden in this most unknown places and it takes time.
Don't let anyone pressure you into becoming someone you are not, at the end of the day you are the only one that's going to be doing that for the rest of their lives and as I see it you have one of two options, you can either go, do something you love or stay, do what you are told and although you may be happy, it may not the one for you.
It goes differently for everyone, as everyone's ambitions are different, but you only get one life to do what you love.