We all have lot of first times, the first time you opened your eyes, the fist time you slept the whole night, the first day of school, the first time you went out, the first time you tried new food, your first decision, half of your life is filled with these precious moments that we don't pay attention to.
Okay, we can't pay attention to all of them, but there are some of them that we just let go, the first time you are able to do something by yourself is like a little victory, no one can take that away from you, it doesn't matter how big or small is, also the first time you decided to order something new from the menu and not your regular and you liked it, it's a way of getting to know your taste, what you like.
Not all of them are going to be good ones but they are going to give you something to learn from, doing new things is the easiest way to know what's you thing, what you like. We are the ones taking away those precious moments from us, what are you winning if you are not trying?
Most guys think that this is more of like a "Girls thing" but don't you feel good when you remember those things?
The key is to appreciate the opportunities life give us and take advantage of them. At the end of the day you have two options, keep living in your comfort zone or step out and have many first times.